It’s hard to move on after breaking up with your boyfriend, especially when you really want to make him want you back.
If only you could go back to the days when he really wanted to be with you, and make him feel like that again. And actually that is the key to getting back together with your boyfriend – finding the way to make him want you back.
Something was missing from your relationship that was important enough to cause your boyfriend to leave.
A man needs to feel attraction and connection to want to be with you, so you need to find the way to get these things back. There are certain things a man looks for in a relationship, and the woman who provides them will always be attractive to him. You knew how to be what he wanted once; so look at these qualities and start thinking about where you went wrong,
Independence is sexy. Independence is the most attractive quality to a man.
You want him, but you don’t need him. Life is possible without him. You don’t have to be with him 24/7. You both have your own things, and give each other the time to pursue them. You have your own life, your own friends and a way of supporting yourself.
This doesn’t mean being a man-hater. It’s OK to want him to do things for you, and to appreciate it when he does. But you don’t depend on him for your happiness. Your world isn’t defined by him. You don’t look to him to validate your existence. All this is wildly attractive to a man. Being needy and clingy is not.
Have Your Own Style
Men are visual people and the first thing they notice in a woman is her looks.
This doesn’t mean you have to be a raving beauty – how many of us are? But you should think about getting a makeover so that when he sees you again he is left thinking “Wow! She looks amazing! She’s soooo hot! Why EVER did I let her go?
So show pride in yourself by making the best of your looks and having your own style. Choose your clothes to suit your figure and show off your best features. Doing this will create a ‘look’ that will become uniquely your own.
No matter how fit you are already, you can give yourself a fillip by working out harder and pushing yourself to the next level. A taut, toned body is always sexier and more alluring.
Knowing you are looking good will fill you with confidence and exude sexiness and style. These qualities are much more attractive to a man because they are full of life. Beauty without animation will quickly become boring. Style conveys the confidence and personality of a woman who is sexy and unique.
Personality & Fun
Did you contribute to the relationship with ideas and fun? Or did you rely on your boyfriend to provide all that?
If he always had to entertain you then he probably grew tired of having to do all the work. You need to be a match for each other in personality and companionship, otherwise the one who contributes the most will start to get bored and resentful.
Dating is all about sharing good times together.
It’s what makes you a couple rather than just good friends. You should be creating memories together, not waiting for your boyfriend to make them for you.
Did you try to win your boyfriend’s love by doing everything for him?
A man isn’t looking for a mother in you – he’s already got one. He wants an escape from the boredom of real life.
Giving him challenges will make him invest in you and feel more committed to your relationship. Lots of women try to win a man’s love by anticipating his every need and always being there for him. But men value what they have to work for.
Don’t hand him your love on a plate. Make him work for it.
Men love challenges. Winning makes them feel powerful and successful.
Reward him when he does something for you that pleases you. Seeing you happy makes him feel so good about himself that he will want to keep doing it.
Encourage him to achieve his goals and give him your support. Expect more from him and appreciate him when he rises to the challenge. Make him want to become a better man in order to deserve your love.
Make Him Want You Back
Men are attracted to women who are comfortable in their own skin.
A woman who loves life will always attract men because they will be confident of making her happy. If, like many women, you have allowed yourself to be consumed by your relationship, you may have started to lose sight of the real you. This is the woman who first attracted your boyfriend and made him fall in love with you. If you can rediscover her, you can make him want you back by falling in love with you all over again.
He left because he no longer felt good being with you. Change this, and he’ll be begging you to return to him.
Make him realize you’re the only woman in the world for him. When he sees that he can’t live without you, he won’t be able to let you go.