So you want to know how to get him back. Be warned, it’s not a seat-of-your-pants job.

It’s so easy to make fatal mistakes when you’re in the middle of a breakup. Hone your skills and avoid all the mistakes.

You need a plan, a well-thought-out strategy. Without those, you will make fatal mistakes because you are at the mercy of your emotions. Don’t try just to wing it, or hope for the best.

Here’s how to get him back.