Did your ex tell you why he left? Did he tell you straight or try to be tactful?

Sometimes men don’t give a reason at all: they just disappear! And if he did, what he told you isn’t necessarily the real reason – maybe he was just trying to spare your feelings!

It’s a sad fact of life that men will chicken out of telling you the truth if they think it will avoid drama.

Did you think you were a great girlfriend, and that you were happy together? If so, his leaving will seem inexplicable. Or did you fight a lot, especially at the end?

However it happened, there is a reason for it. And finding out why he left will give you more insight into what went wrong with your relationship.